ADHD and Social Anxiety: Neurodiversity And Social Fear
Do you find social situations overwhelming not just from anxiety, but because your brain processes information differently? Perhaps you struggle to follow conversations, miss social cues, or feeling "out of sync" with others due to your ADHD.
The combination of ADHD and social anxiety creates unique challenges, but understanding this intersection can help you navigate social situations more confidently — not ‘hiding’ your ADHD but being authentic in yourself.
The ADHD Social Anxiety Connection
ADHD can contribute to social anxiety through:
Processing Differences:
Difficulty following multiple conversations
Missing social cues or context
Trouble filtering background noise
Overwhelm from sensory information
Challenges with timing in conversations
Difficulty maintaining focus in groups
Finding yourself distracted during social situations
Social Impact of ADHD:
Interrupting others unintentionally
Speaking without filtering
Appearing distracted or uninterested
Missing important social information
Forgetting names or details
Struggling with turn-taking
Running late to social events
Impact on Daily Life
Social Challenges:
Difficulty maintaining conversations in the way you want
Overwhelming group situations
Problems with social timing
Relationship maintenance struggles
Work interaction challenges
Educational social difficulties
Friend group dynamics
Emotional Impact:
Feeling "different" or misunderstood
Fear of social judgment
Self-esteem issues
Performance anxiety
Identity struggles
Masking exhaustion
Emotional overwhelm
Take the First Step
Don't let the combination of ADHD and social anxiety hold you back. I offer a supportive environment where we can work together to understand your unique challenges and build strategies for success. I want you to feel comfortable within yourself — able to navigate social situations in a way that feels good for you.
ADHD Diagnosis
I work with people with diagnosed ADHD, as well as those who have not received a diagnosis but relate to ADHD. If you are wanting to explore an ADHD diagnosis, I do not provide assessments, however, I work closely with Psychiatrists who can offer you this in conjunction with treatment with me.
Want to overcome social anxiety in the context of ADHD and neurodiversity?
Working together, I can help you:
Understand your unique processing style
Develop strategies for social situations
Build confidence in your abilities
Create coping tools for overwhelm
Navigate relationships effectively
Embrace your different way of thinking
Find environments that support your success